transformation is painful but possible...

There was nothing you could have done to prevent this or that bad break. But here you are. Facing it. That's life. Stuff happens. Then what?  More from Daily Stoic.  Email from son waiting in my inbox this a.m.  He was boarding in Miami at 8 p.m. last night.  Back in US after 3 months in CDMX.  It is going to be an adjustment.  Will see what he has to say.  He does have friends coming to town for a ceramics conference - NCECA’s 60th conference, Volumes, takes place in Detroit, Michigan, March 25 - 28, 2026.  Will see when I hear from him.  No phone calls or texts - my request - while he was away.  Written word only via email.  No international plan or What's App for me.  But more for protection from worrying.  

Yesterday was not a pretty day, but no umbrella and I started my usual Monday reservoir route at 10:40 a.m. and ran into someone at the reservoir and did not get home until 1 p.m.  Added a few miles to my route.  :)  Did wash when I got back.  Watched town meeting online.  Will watch the ending once it is posted.  Almost done with Reacher book.  Today - Shoprite, run dishwasher, CA DC, documentary at town library.  Compassion & Choices and Connecticut Death Collective reps will be there.  Very curious who will be in the room from town.  Will walk up and back is my plan tonight.  Weather is supposed to improve today.  

You may have to cancel your social plans this weekend to focus on your work but you will be happy to do so. A fantastic Mars-Jupiter link will bring opportunities to move up on the work front and you are not about to waste them.

Blessings will leave you busy this morning, dear Libra. As the Gemini Moon and Mars square off, it's important to show the other side that you're willing to work for your dreams. Difficult decisions may be needed if multiple opportunities arise at once. If you're unsure of what to do, ask for additional time. If you don't have the luxury of weighing your options before moving forward, trust your instincts and avoid succumbing to fear. Be generous with your love when Luna aspects Venus and Chiron this evening, allowing sweet connections to dissolve any weight you've been carrying. 

You're apt to be especially attuned to the thoughts and feelings of partners at this time, Libra. In fact, you might find yourself picking up so much that it's a bit overwhelming. Nonetheless, it is an advantage. You'll probably know instinctively what those around you want, and this new sensitivity should definitely score you some points with business and romantic partners alike. Don't be afraid to make use of it. That's what it's there for.

Working on another blog post for FEN.  Will see if I get there.  Today - enjoy the weather change and the documentary event tonight.  See where it takes me.  Have a good Tuesday.  

"Off" Sunday... :)

Had to smile when I read this yesterday.  Walking as a Stoic practice.  :)  Cold and gross out per the weatherman yesterday.  SO glad it waiting until later in the day yesterday.  I left the apt yesterday at 8:45 a.m. and let the landlord know so he could get to the work needed to get the pipe work fixed and keep the water off to my apt off for as little time as possible.  I wandered until 1 p.m. but headed home then.  Was just coming back from using the public restroom at the Town Hall when I ran into the landlord who was getting ready to call me at 2 p.m.!!  Much more than he anticipated.  Always the case when working on a building is over 200 yrs old.  :)  Another "hiccup" in my Sunday plan - I was heading out for my RTT to Unionville for the first time in a long time and found the Burlington to Unionville route was blocked off.  Trees must have caused some issues with all the snow/rain/wind weather of late.  Will try again next Sunday.

So my route yesterday - to Burlington and back, then to the Shoppes, then home.  Making sure I stopped along the way to use public restrooms not know what I was going to find when I got home.  :)  

Spoke to sister #1 and niece #2.  They left for Venice last night.  Wrote an email to send this a.m. to niece #1 to wish her Happy Anniversary today.  Spoke to sister #4 as she landed from her flight home from Florida.  Sisters are checking in on sister #6 as she moved through her "dog re-homing" of Saturday.  

FEN boss shared with me to share my latest writing with the blog team.  Will see what they have to say.  

Tonight no ZEN DC, but BOF budget workshop.  I will go or tune in.  Will see how I feel tonight.  

If you let a rival get inside your head today they won’t hesitate to play on your doubts and fears. This is one of those occasions when you would be wise to erect a barrier between yourself and the outside world, albeit a temporary one.

You'll be in a position of influence and abundance, dearest Libra, with a desire to share what you've gained. Spoiling loved ones will remind you of the hidden pleasures success can provide, as the Gemini Moon aspects Neptune, the Sun, Saturn, and Pluto. If you can help others actualize their own dreams, now is a good time to offer support. Romantic connections will feel particularly elevating. Chemistry grows when philosophical discussions are exchanged or adventures shared. If you're overdue for an outing, get away with your favorite person. Outline a strategy to catch up on your to-do lists while Luna squares the nodes of fate and Mercury later today. 

Whatever work you do today could go more slowly than usual, Libra, as you're apt to be a bit distracted. You may be preoccupied with the past, especially with feelings and events you thought you'd long forgotten that affect your mood in various ways. This might be a good day to concentrate on routine tasks that you can do automatically, if possible. That way you'll be as productive as always.

Might think about barriers...  I am anxious about son's travel back to states if that is still on.  Will hope that the rain stops for a walk later.  It was an umbrella walk yesterday.  Oh well.  Have a good Monday. 

No puffy coat, but still chilly on walk

Working through the weekend.  Cousin traveling yesterday.  Sister today.  Son tomorrow.  Call from landlord saying that water will be turned off today for a few hours so we will try to synchronize our watches so that happens during my walk.  Unfortunately a rainy day forecast, but I can use the rails-to-trails/town public bathroom options if needed.  I will hope that the landlord feels efficient today.  

Picture to picture frame from son that was not what I wanted to see as he winds things down, but I will keep the good thought that all is well and he will be winging back to US tomorrow.  And just got notice that ZEN DC is cancelled for tomorrow...I will try to get my zen from somewhere else.  Wish me luck.  It is the BOF budget workshop, so I guess I will not be double booked tomorrow.  

Yesterday - walked to Shoppes with a side trip to check out ALDI.  Still not seeing enough to make my shopping a two stop process.  Will stick with Shoprite and my coupons.  Dropped off Chevalier book.  Started reading the latest Reacher.  Low brow, but entertaining.  :)

Today.  I will head out at 10-ish and wander until I get the signal that the water is back on.  It will be an umbrella walk.  Albany CA DC tonight.  

The more tuned in you are to a loved one’s thoughts and feelings the more likely it is you will be able to predict what they are going to do next. Keep your eyes and ears open over the next few days and try to see the world from their viewpoint.

Prioritize harmony and sweetness as the Aries Sun and Neptune unite, darling Libra, even if you know the sensation will be fleeting. You have a chance to strengthen relationships and establish personal balance if you relinquish control and melt into bliss. Leave your problems for another day, and get in touch with your body. Recognizing how tension has been manifesting physically when Mercury aligns with the nodes of fate. Release stress and close chapters while recommitting to a healthier path. Sacrifice a vice and the universe will reward you once the Taurus Moon and Uranus join forces later tonight.

A business or romantic partner may seem a bit preoccupied with some very serious matters today, Libra, and not be likely to share them with you. Asking to talk about it won't work, so you'll probably end up depending on your intuition. Your friend is probably concerned with the health of a family member who may need surgery. Don't feel excluded. Your friend will talk when the time is right. Be patient!

Tuned in, harmony and sweetness, release stress, patience...yikes, my cosmic guidance is putting me to the test.  Wish me luck.  Have a good Sunday.  

Now on to Spring...hope the temperature gets the memo :)

Had my puffy jacket on for the walk on Friday.  Family friend joined in on her return from Florida.  Had the balance of my CPP from landlady.  Read some of latest Chevalier - Burning Bright.  Will hope to finish today.  Went out for a second short walk after I ate.  

Nothing on my paper calendar.  But today is "pick of the weekend" per weatherman.  I will wander.  Sister #6 called as I was on my second walk.  She is re-homing her dog today.  Will see if that accomplishes what it is meant to for her.  

I am floundering in the season change.  Also the change ahead for son as he sets a new course.  

Realized the Wed shows were on so watched all 3.  One before walk #1 and two after.  Sobbing during the first.  :)  Looking for distractions to get me through to Tuesday.  

You may have to cancel your social plans this weekend to focus on your work but you will be happy to do so. A fantastic Mars-Jupiter link will bring opportunities to move up on the work front and you are not about to waste them.

Connections intensify as the Taurus Moon and Pluto align, dear Libra, but charged emotions may cloud your judgment. Be mindful of the impact others have on you, especially in romance. Pump the brakes on any relationships that are moving too quickly or cause you to act out of character. It will be easier to engage your practical side when Luna, Mercury, and the nodes of fate stir midafternoon. Prioritize healthy decisions and dynamics, even if this process triggers some sorrow. You'll feel more in control and optimistic once Mars and Jupiter form an elevating aspect this evening. 

Memories welling up today could trigger a desire to get in touch with old friends, Libra, or relatives you haven't seen in a long time. Some of these recollections could be bittersweet, bringing pain experienced in the past to the surface once more. Don't hang on to these ancient grievances. Work them out in your mind and then let them go. You might experience a deep-seated relief. You could even feel a little lightheaded.

More of my eye on future than memories today...fingers crossed that relief is the way.  Have a good Saturday.  

Thursday was interesting... :)

2:01 a.m. and my writing and eating, then back to bed.  Then back up at 8:45 a.m.  Read for a bit, ready to go out for walk at 10 a.m. AND got text from landlady that Chicken Pot Pie will be on my stoop for my meal #2 today (and it showed up right on time at 2:48 p.m.)  :)  Good news after this topsy-turvy morning.  

So walked, ran into family friend as she was on way to the dump and library after her Florida trip.  We will meet up to walk this a.m.  Got text from sister #4 and TX/NM friend that they both got to where they were going - Florida and NM.  Massage Thursday - just what I needed after the people week last week.  Package arrived before 6 p.m. on Wednesday so no money back...oh well.  

Today - walk.  Thursday shows.  Nothing on my paper calendar until Sunday.  Will see what comes up to fill the time.  Happy Spring.  

As the Sun moves into your opposite sign today your rivals and competitors, and maybe some of your friends as well, will be more confrontational. But that’s okay as you enjoy being challenged – it gives you the chance to prove yourself.

Prioritize vibrant, harmonious relationships throughout the coming weeks, darling Libra. As the Sun enters Aries, you're invited to enjoy sweet moments with your dearest companions. Establishing a more efficient routine will free up time to spend with your favorite people. As Mercury stations direct this afternoon, consider where adjustments are needed. Tackle errands and chores alongside your partner in crime to have the best of both worlds. Release romantic hurts from the past when Chiron stirs later today. Discussions pertaining to commitment and shared resources could emerge once Luna drifts into Taurus tonight. 

Work may seem more like a drag than usual, as today your thoughts are at home with family, friends, and your partner in life, Libra. You're unlikely to concentrate on work, and you might reach for the phone constantly to seek a friendly voice. Images of beautiful objects may dance in your head. Don't worry about your concentration. It will be back tomorrow!

Spring Equinox - one of my holidays.  Keep a good thought for uplift today.  :)  Have a good Friday.  

Up early - slight understatement

Not sure what woke me up this morning.  2:01 a.m. as we speak.  But I will go with it.  

Yesterday - no walk with family friend as usual on Wednesday a.m. so I did some extra cleaning around the apartment, EOLD, walked to Shoppes, stopped and restocked at library, back home to eat another leftovers meal (breakfast has bacon with pancakes!), started watching BOF/BOE meeting but was very disappointed in the content of the BOE chairperson.  Turned it off.  Started watching Monday's FBI show, but was not "caught".  Did watch the ending this a.m.  :)  Made note that the overnight package got to Albuquerque at 4:30 p.m.  I would have gotten my money back if it was late - after 6 p.m..  Oh well.  TX/NM friend won't even get to ABQ until tonight...Tuesday had a bit of wasted energy/money feel.  :)

Pic on picture frame from son.  Not sure what it is feeling like to be wrapping things up for now.  Never know what is up his sleeve.  

Today - no Wednesday shows to watch this a.m.  Hmmm...lots of time to fill this a.m.  Walk.  Massage Thursday at 1 p.m.  

You will need to be more assertive than normal over the next few days as the Sun’s move into the partnership area of your chart will encourage people you deal with on a one-to-one basis to put their own interests first. Your interests matter too.

Passion and intensity build within matters of the heart, sweet Libra, as the Aries Moon aspects Saturn and Pluto. Relationships will become serious, and you'll begin to examine what you truly want in a long-term partnership. Recognize if you need to release old wounds or cycles that have spoiled connections in the past. On an individual level, it might be time to rediscover a love for yourself. Creative outlets and reconnecting with neglected personal interests could prove most healing. Acknowledge if you require more discipline to ensure your dreams come true while Luna squares Jupiter, vowing to move forward with renewed determination and better structures. 

A trip by air could be very much on your mind today. Perhaps you're planning a vacation with your family or a romantic partner. You could well be caught up in the excitement that seems to be the driving emotion today. Friends could offer advice, Libra, but you aren't in the space to accept it, as your self-confidence is high. Expect to spend the evening in the congenial company of friends.

No travel in my future.  Will see if anything else surfaces to inspire me.  Have a good Thursday.  

Well that was a day!

So many things that bother me about myself came to roost yesterday.  Lots to think about today.  Started at Shoprite - It was a $20.42/$9.78 day.  Not much to buy.  People have filled my "pantry" in various ways of late - dinners out, leftovers, eating with friends, chickens starting to lay eggs with the weather change...so a bread, pasta, grapes, bananas, cheese, oranges day.  Ran dishwasher.  Got a text from TX/NM friend that she left some stuff at the house she was staying at and would I go up and gather them and send them to her to NM, her next stop.  So I did.  Waited for the PO to open, posted it and had it ready for a $12.95 trip to NM, arrive by Friday.  And headed out for my walk.  About half way into my walk, I thought...maybe there was an expectation in her "what's money" life that it would land today...so I cut my walk short by a bit and was huffing and puffing when I got to the PO to ask the guy if the package had gone out yet.  He said no, and I said can I turn it into overnight?  He said yes, but I need to cancel the first order and I would need the credit card I used, so I ran to the apt - tripping UP the back stairway, skinning my shin, got the credit card and hustled back and sent the package on  $34.15 trip to arrive by 6 p.m. tonight.  Then when I sent the tracking info to TX/NM friend, she said "wow, did you expedite things, I have extras of everything, but thanks."  Could have saved myself a run, skinned shin and $22 dollars to have stayed with my initial thought...You can imagine I kicked myself around the block about that.  

The next thing in my day helped.  CA DC with ice pack on my shin.  Talk of space and grace, being a better receptor and sender of kindness and acceptance.  Then another walk to clear my head from all that the day had brought to mind. I checked my email before I left and found an email from son.  He is sticking to his original return date of March 23...that was a shock to me.  I was torn between wanting it to be completely and totally the right place at the right time and him being back in the US. Will see where this next chapter leads.  Again, his parents changed their lives drastically at his age, maybe it is a genetic change time.  Then getting ready to go to swimming lady's house for corned beef and cabbage.  Interesting being the youngest in the room.  Mid to late 80's in age and various level of hearing impairment.  Conversations changed course frequently due to what was heard at one end of the table or the other.  :)  

Looked down to see a 5:55 a.m. this morning on my computer clock as I started to write this - The 555 angel number is a powerful sign of major life changes, personal growth, and transformation, indicating that significant shifts are coming. It is a message to embrace these changes with an open mind, as they represent divine guidance and positive opportunities rather than coincidences.

Today - woke up "late".  Plan is clean apt, walk, EOLD, BOF/BOE meeting.  I might physically go to this one since the weather will not be terrible.  Could not be more thankful that tomorrow is massage Thursday.  :)  

The message of the stars now is that you must find ways to lessen the heavy load you’ve been carrying. That should be a lot easier to do when the Sun moves into the partnership area of your chart on Friday. Until then, just chill.

Watch out for love bombing behaviors within yourself and others, dearest Libra. A passionate, emotionally charged atmosphere breaks down romantic barriers as Venus and Jupiter square off. Unfortunately, a rushed commitment could cause connections to burn out. If you're already in a relationship, do something thoughtful for your partner when the Sun and Uranus align this afternoon. Reassess and set improved wellness goals under tonight's Pisces New Moon, focusing on where you want to see improvements throughout the next six months. An enchanting energy surrounds you once Luna enters Aries and joins forces with Neptune, encouraging you to melt into sweetness. 

Overindulgence last night could have left you feeling a little woozy today, Libra. You're may want to spend the day in bed, but the prospect of leaving tasks undone could cause you to push on anyway. That's a bad idea. Rest is just what you need. Don't force yourself to socialize, either. You need some time alone to recover and gather your resources so you can face the world with a clear head.

Will try and let the day come to me...wish me luck.  Have a good Wednesday.