Friday, January 31, 2025

Input overload yesterday - in the best way. :)

Had to smile as someone spoke in a discussion last night about her father having a "put them anywhere" response when she brought his wife's ashes to his home, but he cried like a baby when cleaning out wife's purse and found the quarter she always kept for the shopping card at ALDI.  Another "you never know" about peoples' life and times.  And I never tire of being reminded.  

Yesterday was a good but chilly walk, conversation at Cape Cod DC about widowhood.  Not an experience I have had, but I did feel some of what was shared by someone whose husband died 30 years ago when their daughter was 12.  29 years ago, son had just turned 13 for when husband left.  Moving along alone I identify with.  Can't imagine the reality when the grief of love lost is also a part of the journey forward.

Saw TX friend's sister in the ZOOM screen last night.  She texted me after that she really has to get her head out of the sand about what would happen if her husband died.  He takes care of all the finances in the family.  She got a lot out of the discussion of "what I wish I had known before husband died" items.  

Slept like a log last night.  But did wake up to the dreaded RMD issue that 2025 is putting on my plate.  I do not get the concept - except the country wants the tax money sooner than later - of making people take money out of vehicles that can help set the table for long term financial security just because they have reached the magic number of a certain age...  I know it is a first world problem because I have something that falls into the RMD category, but I am not happy about it.  

Another part of the overload is the impact of Peace Corps friend's writings.  Australian acquaintance asked if she could share what I shared with her.  LOVE the fact of the ripple effect - across the Pacific Ocean.  As I told Australia - words, you can't live with them and you can't live without them.  :)

On my walk yesterday, I ran into the lady who replaced me - the last time around - at former school #2.  Our boss is going to be out of town, but replacement and I will go to the dance recital on Thursday.  Will meet her and her family at the school cafeteria for dinner.  Not our usual dinner and dance recital routine, but works for me.  (no cost) :)  Not as hearty as the fare at former school #1 (all boys rather than all girls) but still very good.

So today - LATE start - 7:06 already this morning...  Walk if rain permits.  Tomorrow Lansing in a.m., W&T book club in afternoon.  Sunday Alameda.  

Cosmic activity in the most dynamic area of your chart means you don’t lack for courage and confidence but you need to add a large dash of common sense if you are to avoid unnecessary trouble. Steer clear of people who enjoy causing strife.

Don't let others convince you that nonexistent limitations exist, sweet Libra, as the Pisces moon and Jupiter square off. Though your vast dreams may cause your schedule to feel jam-packed at times, taking care of yourself and asking for help will give you the energy and motivation needed to see these aspirations all the way through. Allow your plans to fluctuate as creative inspiration trickles in while Venus and Neptune dance in your solar sixth house. Mix intuition with practical planning to make the most of these vibes, especially when Luna and Saturn join forces later this evening. 

You might need to do some of the less exciting chores involved with creative or artistic projects today, Libra. You're in the right frame of mind to get them done. Your efficiency is at a peak. A practical, no-nonsense manner marks all your interactions. By day's end you should feel more than satisfied with what you've done. You're apt to be prepared for the next phase of the project.

Looking forward to the end of the day feeling of satisfaction.  :)  Have a good Friday.  
 

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